Publié le 19 décembre 2025
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Anal: it doesn’t hurt… the guide to good practices

Following the hot story “Anal Pleasure by Mlle C & Mr R”,
, many of you have asked us for practical advice. Here is the long-awaited sequel: a short guide to good practices for exploring anal with complete peace of mind and with maximum pleasure.

Let's make things clear from the start: anal doesn't hurt and it's not dirty... when you follow a few simple rules. And believe us, it’s worth the effort!

Hygiene: the absolute basis
When we think "anal", many immediately imagine the worst... Yes, geographically, it's close, but with good habits, we avoid any inconvenience and transform the experience into pure delight.
- Take a shower beforehand and gently clean the area with lukewarm water (or a gentle, never aggressive intimate gel).
- Use an enema bulb or shower nozzle: gently introduce lukewarm water several times until it comes out clear. No strong pressure – we are not karcherizing!
- Wait 15 minutes to allow time for any possible residue to drain, then a final quick rinse.
- Bonus tip: a small injection of water-based lubricant into the rectum for perfect glide from the start (-> lubricant injector on Amazon).

Hygiene reassures both partners and allows total relaxation.
Little advice: avoid a heavy meal just before. Favor games late in the afternoon or late in the evening, well after dinner.

Golden rule to never forget
Never vaginal penetration after anal penetration without careful washing (or changing condoms) of everything that has been in contact with the anus.
Why? The anus naturally harbors bacteria which, if transferred to the vagina, can cause infections (cystitis, vaginosis, etc.). A simple rinse with lukewarm water and mild soap is usually sufficient for a toy or your hands; for the penis, the safest thing is to change condoms between the two areas.
This little precaution takes 30 seconds and protects the pleasure and health of your partner.

Preparation: gently accustom your body
The secret? Time and progressivity. Your anus is not (yet) used to this kind of caresses... but it can become so, and with increased pleasure.
- Start with plugs: small at first, then more generous. Wear them for 1 to 2 hours daily under your clothes – you will quickly see your body open and relax naturally.
- Always plenty of lubricant, slow movements, and let the sphincter open by itself. Never forcing.
- It's an exciting game to share: a little photo sent to your partner... and wait for the fiery response!

On request, we send you plug recommendations for a pleasant preparation.

Sodomy: delicacy and communication above all
This is where everything plays out. Patience, listening and respect transform anal into a deeply sensual experience.

- Move at the pace of the person receiving. Abundance of lubricant, breaks if necessary, absolute softness.
- Communicate without filter: “slow down”, “deeper”, “stop” must be respected immediately, without judgment.
- The objective? Give pleasure to the one who offers himself. It is in his abandon and his ecstasy that you will find yours. Anal is not a conquest, it is a sharing.

Still a taboo? Really?
Anal penetration remains surrounded by prejudices, even though it offers unique and intense sensations. Did you know that men have even more nerve endings than women in this area? Gentlemen, you have everything to gain…

In short, anal when done well is pure pleasure, without pain or taboo. Take your time, talk about it openly, prepare carefully, and discover a new dimension of desire together.


Progressive program to get used to anal pleasure with plugs
The idea is simple: get your anus used to relaxing and welcoming insertions in a natural and pleasant way, without pain. By wearing a plug regularly (1 to 2 hours a day, or more if it's comfortable), your body learns to gradually open up. It's an exciting game, alone or to share with your partner (a little discreet photo... and the reactions are not long in coming!).

Recommended total duration:
4 to 8 weeks, depending on your pace and sensitivity.

Golden rules:
- Always lots of water-based lubricant.
- very slow insertion: breathe deeply, push lightly as if going to the toilet – the sphincter opens on its own.
- If pain → stop immediately, go down one size.
- Clean the plug before/after (soapy water or toy cleaner).
- Start sitting or lying on your side for more comfort.
- Give yourself two days of rest per week.

### Program in 6 weeks (progressive and realistic)

Week 1 – Discovery and relaxation (small size)
- Plug: Beginner – Max diameter 2-3 cm (e.g.: small soft silicone plug, drop or thin conical shape).
- Wear: 30 min to 1 hour per day.
- Objective: Get used to the feeling of light fullness. Walk, sit, feel it discreetly.

Week 2 and 3 – Gentle increase
- Plug: Small/medium size – Max diameter 3-3.5 cm (e.g.: classic medium plug or with comfortable base).
- Wear: 1 to 2 hours per day.
- Tip: Alternate positions (standing, sitting) and add voluntary contractions to strengthen control.

Week 4 and 5 – Intermediate Comfort
- Plug: Medium size – Max diameter 3.5-4 cm (e.g.: firm but flexible silicone plug, or vibrating model if you want to add some spice).
- Wear: 2 to 3 hours per day, or more if comfortable.
- Objective: Your anus begins to open quickly and naturally.

Week 6+ – Ready for more
- Plug: Medium/large size – Diameter 4-4.5 cm (or more depending on your desire and capacity).
- Port: As much as you wish (up to several hours or an entire evening).
- Bonus: Try weighted (for a sensation of movement) or vibrating plugs to intensify the pleasure.

Do not hesitate to write to us privately for more personalized recommendations.

Take your time, listen to your body, and transform this preparation into a real source of pleasure. Well-controlled anal becomes an extraordinary sensual dimension.

At LuX, we love supporting your discoveries… without taboos.


If you have any questions or want our recommendations, write to us privately.