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Frequently Asked Questions

We’ve gathered here some of the questions we’re most frequently asked.
Feel free to contact us if you have questions not answered below.
I’m intimidated and hesitant to register
It wouldn’t be normal not to feel a bit intimidated by this kind of event. However, remember we only have one first time, and it’s always incredibly thrilling.
At the LuX, kindness is essential, and everything is set up to put you at ease.
Don’t hesitate to contact us or come discuss it directly with us. We’re here to answer all your questions.
I dream of participating but fear STDs
The health of LuX members is a top priority in our approach. While zero risk doesn’t exist, we do everything to minimize it as much as possible.
We thank you for taking the time to read the health page dedicated to measures for limiting STI transmission risks.  
How can I be sure the selected men will suit me?
The LuX does its utmost to select profiles matching your desires. However, one thing must be clarified: overly specific requests may not be met, and in such cases, we’d prefer not to welcome you.
The LuX is designed to cater to a variety of sexual desires through diverse male profiles. If you’re looking for love, we suggest exploring other avenues. Each has their role.
I really don’t like one of the selected men.
Simply let us know, and we’ll politely ask him to step out of the game, apologizing for it. It’s not the end of the world.
The LuX seems very elitist—maybe too much?
The LuX is a place created for those seeking a blend of luXury and elegance. Whether you’re rich or poor, a surgeon or a worker, etc., doesn’t matter. What counts above all is that you’re elegant and possess good manners.
Can I attend as a spectator?
Single men cannot attend as spectators at the LuX—it’s not a show. However, we can accommodate a woman in a scenario where she has no active role with the men, defined on a case-by-case basis.
What if I have performance issues?
Performance issues can happen to anyone, especially in unconventional situations. If it happens, just take a moment to step back. If things pick up, you can return to play.
To avoid situations where multiple men struggle (let’s be honest, the women at the LuX aren’t here for tea!), we’ll avoid grouping several novices in the same event.
There are also little blue pills (with a medical prescription) that can help if needed!
I’m a woman and want to stop during the event
Being at the center of the game, it can sometimes be hard to say stop, but it’s crucial you know you’re the only one who decides. If you want to stop, every man will cease immediately per your wish.
We’ll establish a safeword with you that, once spoken, will instantly halt the game. Note that once this word is said, the game will stop definitively and won’t resume.
It’s essential that everything is perfectly clear, and all men present understand and respect your desires.
I’m a man—can I bring a friend?
If your friend matches the sought-after profile, we’d be delighted to review his application.
I’m afraid of running into someone who might recognize me at the LuX.
Though it’s highly unlikely, a fundamental rule applies at the LuX:
What happens at the LuX stays at the LuX!
We’re all here for the same reason—let’s not forget that.
We recommend reading the discretion section in the Basic Rules.
A non-profit association? Why is it paid then?
Since the LuX’s goal isn’t to make money, it’s much easier to select members and say no to those who don’t align with the venue’s philosophy. We emphasize that no one is paid to participate in events. Women are at the center of the game for their pleasure and theirs alone.
We’re committed to offering a unique venue unlike anywhere else, free from financial gain in a world too often driven by money. However, creating this space to welcome you in an elegant, comfortable setting required significant work and loans to repay, not to mention ongoing costs.
As a non-profit association, all funds collected by the LuX are used for its operations, not to enrich anyone.
I’ve been blacklisted—can I ever come back?
No!

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The LuX
  • The LuX & Monsieur R
  • The LuX in pictures
  • Testimonials
Events & Scenarios
  • Events at the LuX
  • Scenarios, Stories & More
  • Health and STI Risks
Become a member of the LuX
Basic Rules
  • Frequently Asked Questions
  • Contact